Charity and Sylvia: A Same-Sex Marriage in Early America by Rechel Hope Cleves

from booklender.com (originally from amazon?)

Charity and Sylvia is the intimate history of two ordinary women who lived in an extraordinary same-sex marriage during the early nineteenth century. Based on diaries, letters, and poetry, among other original documents, the research traces the women's lives in sharp detail. Charity Bryant was born in 1777 to a consumptive mother who died a month later. Raised in Massachusetts, Charity developed into a brilliant and strong-willed woman with a passion for her own sex. After being banished from her family home by her father at age twenty, she traveled throughout Massachusetts, working as a teacher, making intimate female friends, and becoming the subject of gossip wherever she lived. At age twenty-nine, still defiantly single, Charity visited friends in Weybridge, Vermont. There she met Sylvia Drake, a pious and studious young woman whose family had moved to the frontier village after losing their Massachusetts farm during the Revolution. The two soon became so inseparable that Charity decided to rent rooms in Weybridge. Sylvia came to join her on July 3, 1807, commencing a forty-four year union that lasted until Charity's death.

Over the years, the women came to be recognized as a married couple, or something like it. Charity took the role of husband, and Sylvia of wife, within the marriage. Revered by their community, Charity and Sylvia operated a tailor shop employing many local women, served as guiding lights within their church, and participated in raising more than one hundred nieces and nephews. Most extraordinary, all the while the sexual potential of their union remained an open secret, cloaked in silence to preserve their reputations. The story of Charity and Sylvia overturns today's conventional wisdom that same-sex marriage is a modern innovation, and reveals that early America was both more diverse and more accommodating than modern society imagines.


to explain this; "Charity took the role of husband, and Sylvia of wife, within the marriage." charity is listed first in tax records and in the census, which didn't record the names of women and dependents until 1850. she bought sylvia a ring, which she presumably used as a wedding ring (men didn't really wear them until WW2 when the were pushed as a reminder of wives left behind for married me serving). all the domestic chores were handled by sylvia, since charity hated them. both of them sewed & mended clothes to make a living.

it is a very interesting read. chairty was the aunt of poet & long time editor of the new york post william cullen bryant and was a poet herself, as were several members of her family. it also briefly touches on lesbian history in america after the revolution and how the bryant & drake families were influential members of their community. as well how difficult it was for an unmarried woman to be independent during the late 1700s & 1800s.

Lady Almina and the Real Downton Abbey by Fiona, 8th Countess of Carnarvon

full title;
Lady Almina and the Real Downton Abbey: The Lost Legacy of Highclere Castle

from amazon;
Drawing on a rich store of materials from the archives of Highclere Castle, including diaries, letters, and photographs, the current Lady Carnarvon has written a transporting story of this fabled home on the brink of war. Much like her Masterpiece Classic counterpart, Lady Cora Crawley, Lady Almina was the daughter of a wealthy industrialist, Alfred de Rothschild, who married his daughter off at a young age, her dowry serving as the crucial link in the effort to preserve the Earl of Carnarvon's ancestral home. Throwing open the doors of Highclere Castle to tend to the wounded of World War I, Lady Almina distinguished herself as a brave and remarkable woman.

This rich tale contrasts the splendor of Edwardian life in a great house against the backdrop of the First World War and offers an inspiring and revealing picture of the woman at the center of the history of Highclere Castle.

really only interesting if you're a fan of downton abbey, or have an interest in english houses of the time period. or even egyptian archeology, king tut's bomb in particular. because almina's husband, the 5th earl of carnarvon, bankrolled the excavation & there are a couple of chapters that deal with that.
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Review: "Seven Neighborhoods in Detroit"

Seven Neighborhoods in Detroit: Recipes from the City by J N Cameron


We picked this cookbook because my partner Doug grew up in Detroit (the inner city, not a suburb). The featured neighborhoods are Little Italy, Hamtramck, Chinatown, Paradise Valley, Dearborn, Greektown, and Mexicantown. The recipes are organized per neighborhood rather than by type of dish.

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Saka Saka

Saka Saka: Adventures in African Cooking, South of the Sahara
by Anto Cocagne and Aline Princet

This is a full-color cookbook with many gorgeous photos. In addition to the recipes, it also includes interviews with people from Africa about their favorite foods from there. If you like learning about folks in different parts of the world, you'll enjoy these inserts.

The front matter is extremely useful. It includes the Cuisines of Africa, Tastes of Africa, Principles and Traditions, Benefits of African Cuisines, Main Specialties, Staple Ingredients Region by Region, and the Ideal Pantry. I was intrigued by the Principles section, with points like "Eating with your hands is completely normal" and "We do not eat baby animals." The section on Staple Ingredients makes a great comparison among west, central, east, and south Africa regarding starches, meats, produce, and spices. This part of the book is interesting and educational, whether or not you make any of the recipes.

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Sidelights on New London and Newer York and Other Essays

Sidelights on New London and Newer York and Other Essays by G.K. Chesterton

Chesterton mostly on the Jazz Age.

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Piranesi

Piranesi by Susanna Clarke

A strange and rich tale. . . .

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Avowals and Denials

Avowals and Denials - A Book of Essays by G.K. Chesterton

A selection of essays written by Chesterton in 1934.  More or less topical.

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Aru Shah and the Tree of Wishes

Aru Shah and the Tree of Wishes by Roshani Chokshi

Pandava Quartet book 3. Spoilers ahead for the earlier work

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Series Rec: by Rin Chupeco

The Bone Witch: Book 1
description from Amazon:

Tea can raise the dead, but resurrection comes at a price...

When Tea accidentally resurrects her brother, Fox, from the dead, she learns she is different from the other witches in her family. Her gift for necromancy means that she's a bone witch, a title that makes her feared and ostracized by her community. But Tea finds solace and guidance with an older, wiser bone witch, who takes Tea and her brother to another land for training.

In her new home, Tea puts all her energy into becoming an asha-one who can wield elemental magic. But dark forces are approaching quickly, and in the face of danger, Tea will have to overcome her obstacles...and make a powerful choice.


Note: the other two books in the series are The Heart Forger: Book 2 and The Shadow Glass: Book 3. I am not going to post descriptions in case they end up being spoilers. It's a nice fantasy series that gets better with each book, I think.
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The Ball and the Cross

The Ball and the Cross by G.K. Chesterton, illustrated by Ben Hatke

This work touches on steampunk, and fantasy, and dystopian novels. But what it chiefly is is a philosophical thriller.

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The Secret Chapter

The Secret Chapter by Genevieve Cogman

The Invisible Library book 6. Spoilers ahead for the earlier books.

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Kami no Kishi

Kami no Kishi by Kit Sun Cheah

Dungeon Samurai book 2. Serious spoilers ahead.

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Dungeon Samurai Volume 1: Kamikaze

Dungeon Samurai Volume 1: Kamikaze by Kit Sun Cheah

Yamada is at the dojo, mediating with the sensei and others at the end of class. When abruptly they found themselves abducted into another world. With other people -- some in groups and some as individuals -- one of them, a black man in digital camouflage, asks what's going on, and Yamada realizes the man is speaking in English, and he's hearing him in Japanese.

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A Crown of Wishes

A Crown of Wishes by Roshani Chokshi

After The Star-Touched Queen -- different main characters but benefits from being read in order.

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The Star-Touched Queen

The Star-Touched Queen by Roshani Chokshi

In a series, but a complete stand-alone story.

Maya, because of her terrifying horoscope, is fated to never marry and be cursed by all her father's wives for any bad luck. Though her sister Gauri does love her and the tales she tells, of wonders like the Night Bazaar.
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Aru Shah and the Song of Death

Aru Shah and the Song of Death by Roshani Chokshi

Pandava Quartet book 2

Spoilers ahead for the first, especially as it picks up after the cliff-hanger.

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Aru Shah and the End of Time

Aru Shah and the End of Time by Roshani Chokshi

Three of Aru's schoolmates discover she lives at the museum and come to scorn her and the statues of Indian gods there, and bait her into lighting the lamp she knows is cursed.

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Destiny of Dragons

Destiny of Dragons by Jack Campbell

Book 3 of Legacy of Dragons. Spoilers ahead for earlier books.

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The Exchange of Princesses by Chantal Thomas translated by John Cullen



from the amazon listing
Philippe d’Orléans, the regent of France, has a gangrenous heart—the result of a life of debauchery, alcohol, power, and flattery. One morning in 1721, he decides to marry eleven-year-old Louis XV to the daughter of Philippe V of Spain, who is only four. Orléans hopes this will tie his kingdom to Spain. But were Louis to die without begetting an heir—the likeliness of which is greatly increased by having a child bride—Orléans himself would finally be king. Orléans tosses his own daughter into the bargain, the twelve-year-old Mlle de Montpensier, who will marry the Prince of Asturias, the heir to the Spanish throne.

The Spanish court enthusiastically agrees and arrangements are made. The two nations trade their princesses in a grand ceremony in 1722, making bonds that should end the historical conflict. Nothing turns out as expected.


a historical fiction telling of true events it was a vaguely interesting subject, but i didn't like the....deviations into what the dolls were thinking. i guess because it was originally written in french, that it went of into flights of fancy (i guess that's the right term)
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The Mortal Word

The Mortal Word by Genevieve Cogman

The fifth Invisible Library book. Spoilers ahead for the earlier ones.

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